M a R r I a g E

"Marriage is a social union or legal contract between individuals that creates kinship. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged by a variety of ways, depending on the culture or demographic. Such a union may also be called matrimony, while the ceremony that marks its beginning is usually called a wedding and the marital structure created is known as wedlock."


thats Wikipedia for you ! But what is marriage besides this? It is sharing of gifts, off course the guy gets the beating here... Cost of a mens wear hardly comes a quarter to womens wear when the gear shifts to branded/fashionable ones. What if the gift is not a garment, well Mrs. will be bedazzled by that 100 diamond necklace, while the Mr. can do with a beer mug! In case the Mr. asks for more, it could be that Ducati or the Opel, at times the BMW. But wait how can you get the BMW when you buy that 100 diamond necklace? LOLZ! 


Enough of leg pulling, I stop here. You tell me, about marriage. After a certain time its love and only love for yourself that makes you be in "love" with the partner. With time, Mrs. wants more comfort and security, while Mr. is slave to the comfort of the servants Mrs. has skillfully recruited! Call of the hour gets centered to the only offspring (may be more, keeping population explosion in mind I dread more than one per family!) and people forget they are living. Sacrifices take a front seat, with the subconscious mind of Mr. drooling with pride how great a father he is giving up on his pack of cigarettes for child's sake.  While the Mrs. is busy doing calculations of sleepless nights she spends (office tension! may be but it is not the main reason!!) fretting upon the child's education and health. Thus the battle ground which was tamed from the war crazy male and female species, gets new fuel.


Lets look at it from another angle, the love angle. Boy meets girl, girl blushes, boy smiles and "let there be love, there it is!" There after the male species does odd acts of bravery / chivalry (mostly blasphemy, atheists spare me, believe me I try to be one most of the times), while the girl enjoys his antics in wide eyed amusement. Then starts problems, "don't touch me in public" or "what is to fear when in love" to "Everything is fair in love and war"!
And there she elopes with the young charming prince (a pauper he will be, if not already)  and they live unhappily ever after. Wait it can be different, lets take the case of a software professional. He earns at least thousand times his age, may be some thousands more or less and believes he is king of the world! She is the confident young woman trying to prove the world wrong, by many of her antics (learnt from boyfriend earlier?). They get married, with or without family will, get a posh flat, new car (at least a motorcycle) and start a honeymoon (not in the literal sense) with all surroundings. then the Mr. goes onsite, may be the Mrs. and disconnects in between kills the relationship. But still they stick together as conjugated salary makes the world a better place.


Lets look at another angle to marriage, this marriage is between the He/She and work or fame. they get married young, much before they understand marriage. The Mr. does not have time to see the world behind books,while the Mrs. is busy with P.H.D. After a long time in their forties the realization comes that one is getting more and more detached from society, need someone near and dear to care for. Some don't realize and they call themselves "happy singles"! May be you can be happy alone, but it's difficult to swallow, as man being the first animal to form a society, invented culture, created so many sub species(groups called Hindu/Muslim/Christianity or may be Americans/Europeans/Indians) within Homo Sapiens in the process! Thus some people marry work, or a passion (some bikers have said to have the same emotional attachment to bikes as wives!) some go for the natural way of marrying a female/male. Human beings and their relationships are and can be as bizarre as the animal itself.
As and when insanity prevails with crazy ideas ... I will be back with a Pandora's box! Till then I'll wait for your feed back ... Enjoy!